i've been gone for awhile and must say that i am happy to be taking the steps back into this part of my life. every day people become a victim to life changing events...unfortunately for me that day happened last week. i didn't see it coming, i didn't get many answers to my questions and very quickly my world was shattered. my heart was broken.
i remind myself that one day i will look back at this time in my life only to realize i have become a stronger person for getting through it. each day i work on picking up the pieces. soon i will be whole again and the moment when i can love with all of my heart will be a very beautiful day.
i find comfort in knowing that i have the support of my friends and family...they remind me every day how vibrant i am and that wonderful things are waiting to fill my future. i can hardly wait.
i sit here today feeling fortunate to have gotten answers to many of my questions...with this i know i will be able to move forward and become the best person i can be...for myself and for all of those around me. in time i hope to be able to share more about my experience...i hope to be able to help others that have suffered from a broken marriage or relationship. maybe we can all help each other...maybe, we can all pick up the pieces together. xo lindsay
You WILL be better on the other side of this. Find a mantra and repeat often:) Mine was "live with grace". Good vibes coming your way:)
ReplyDeleteDear sweet Lindsay, I am so sorry for this pain you are going through. There are no words I can say to make anything better, just know I send you my friendship!
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Sweetheart, I'm so sorry you're going through this. I've been through it constantly, and I'm scared to think that it'll happen again in my relationship I'm in now. But you are right, this is a learning experience and you will take what you learn from every broken heart to build yourself up again.
ReplyDeleteI'm always here if you want to email me or talk!! Keep your chin up and take each day as it comes.
Sweet friend, I'm so sorry to hear of this. If this is about what I think it is. I've been down this road once and came out stronger in the end. If you ever want to talk. I'm only an email away! xo.
ReplyDeleteOh Lindsay, tomorrow on our marriage series we are writing about LOVING THROUGH and let me tell ya, I don't know if I'll hold back, it's going to be about darkness in marriages and the brink of divorce, and all the awful unexpected things that can go wrong in a marriage that actually DO.
ReplyDeleteI have been in nightmare for about 6 years, so I feeeeeeeeeeeeel for you,
and I'm thinking of you!! Glad to see you back, I missed you!
You are right, all we can know is one thing, YOU WILL grow and have an amazing character even more for going through this...you will learn and find perspectives that you never thought were possible.
Sweet pea.... Im thinking of you!
ReplyDeleteNadiine xxxx
Oh Lindsay, I am so sorry that you have to go through this! And nothing I can say will make it any better. Just know I am only an email or a chat away. I know this will make you even stronger than you already are. Thinking of you and always here for you. Hugs, sweet friend! xxx
ReplyDeleteall my thoughts and sweet wishes for you lindsay. i cant begin to know what you are going through, but i know you will get through it with grace and love and support from your family and friends. xoxo
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear this. Thinking of you...
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about this, Lindsey. I feel like no one can ever say the "right" thing when we feel like our lives have shattered, but know that God holds you close to His heart and that you are loved by many.
ReplyDeleteI'm very sorry you are going through this, but I know you are a very creative and strong person and even though it is a hard moment, you will get over all the bad things and feelings soon, and you will find yourself as a new person, with more knowledge and experiences that will guide you to an incredible amount of opportunities and happy memories.
ReplyDeleteI wish you the best, I truly do.
You rock and you are gorgeous! Do not forget it :3
Victoria
.....Smile and the sun will shine again sweetie!!
ReplyDeleteWith looooot of love and respect
Happy Kathy :)
I know what its like to have your entire world flipped upside down. I almost didn't get to have a wedding last fall due to some outstanding circumstance but we made it through. I remember during that time I was inconsolable. nothing made me feel better. I felt lost and confused and just down right broken. what eventually brought me around was my puppy, my creative desire and my bestie who listened to me cry and vent and scream sometimes all at once. So know that even thought we don't know you personally we know what you are going through and right now it seems like the world is over but things will look up from here and your online friends are here for you too!
ReplyDeleteStay strong and stay true!
lots of love to you!
I really really hope that you are alright, my lovely :) know that we are all here for you, if you ever want to chat to someone who isn't "involved" in the situation then you send me an email straight away Lindsay!
ReplyDeletexx
He's a butt wipe.. not a real man. Don't sweat it and move on. A real man is loyal!!!
ReplyDeleteOh Lindsay, I am so sorry to hear that you're going through something so difficult. For what it's worth, I'm thinking of you and wishing you all the best. I'm here if you need me.
ReplyDeleteHugs. You sound so stron already. I found your words here inspiring. You sound hopeful. I wish you all the best and I'll be sending positive thoughts your way.
ReplyDeletePraying for you, sweet friend. Stay strong and know that you will come through this. You are such a strong and beautiful soul!
ReplyDeletesending good vibes and better days your way.
ReplyDeleteday by day, you will wake up and s l o w l y things will get better.
I'm sorry to hear about your difficult time, I'll be sure to send some love your way and I hope that things will only get better from here! xoxo
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear this. I'm sure everything will be good in the end ;)
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear you are going through this. Speaking from experience, it DOES get better. I have been divorced for 4 years, and it does get better. You will find a great amount of strength in this. I'm praying for you.
ReplyDeleteOh no! Sending prayers and happy thoughts your way! Know that many are thinking of you girl!
ReplyDeleteMy heart is with you Lindsay. You're strong.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear of your pain. Thinking of you and sending you a big hug! We're all here supporting you and lifting you up!!!! xo
ReplyDeleteYou're in my prayers sweet friend! Really you are. These moments aren't fun. I wont lie and say I understand what you are going through because i don't think anyone can ever understand what is truly going on in our minds and in our hearts but God. All I can say is I am praying for you during this time!
ReplyDeleteLove you Lindsay!! Praying for you!! XOXO
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Oh, bless your heart, sweet girl. I am so sorry. I have had one broken, and now I live happily ever after with the one that was meant to be. It will happen...I promise. Thinking of you, and praying happier days and sunshine, friends, family, and new wishes!
ReplyDeleteSad to hear that something catastrophic has happened in your world! Just know that you will get through this and be happy again one day. Be strong, thinking of you!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry, you are such a beautiful woman & it pains me to hear that you've had such sorrow in your life recently. My thoughts & love are with you!
ReplyDeleteLindsay, I really hope you are not going through what I think you are :( I hate it for you. HATE it. I am thinking and praying for you and I hope everything works out just as it should. You are amazing and beautiful and strong and I know no matter what you are going to come out of this unhappy season of life and shine brighter for it.
ReplyDeletexo,
ashley
I think I may have been through something similar, so, I understand your feelings, but want you to know that you do come out on the other side stronger in time...not that it won't hurt at times or things won't remind you of things, some times worse than others, but I promise it really does build character and the fact that you have great friends and family surrounding you, as I did and do, you will just fine! :) Thinking of you and sending a few extra smiles your way! Sharing your thoughts with us means a lot, and I know for me, writing about things helped...slowly, and in time! xoxo
ReplyDeleteLindsey, I'm so sorry to hear this. But I'm so glad to see that you're already putting on your strong face and take it head on - it's certainly tough, but I know you'll be okay in the end. This is one of those life moments where you look back and say, "I really learned something valuable". Chin up, girl.
ReplyDeleteI was just thinking about you today. I'm so sorry to hear these words. I have been and will continue to pray.
ReplyDeleteim so sorry!!! your in my thoughts. let us know if you need anything
ReplyDelete((hugs))
ReplyDeleteThinking of you! Stay strong, Lindsay. ♥
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